May 14, 2015

God thought about me, and so I grew...

Where Did You Come From, Baby Dear?

~George MacDonald

Where did you come from, baby dear?
Out of the everywhere into here.


 
Where did you get your eyes so blue?
Out of the sky as I came through.




What makes the light in them sparkle and spin?
Some of the starry spikes left in.



What makes your forehead so smooth and high?
A soft hand stroked it as I went by.



What makes your cheek like a warm white rose?
I saw something better than anyone knows.



Whence that three-cornered smile of bliss?
Three angels gave me at once a kiss.



Where did you get this pearly ear?
God spoke, and it came out to hear.



Where did you get those arms and hands?
Love made itself into hooks and bands.



 Feet, whence did you come, you darling things?
From the same box as the cherubs' wings.



How did they all just come to be you?
God thought about me, and so I grew.

But how did you come to us, you dear?
God thought about you, and so I am here.


  
Being a mother is wonderful.  Being a grandmother is sheer bliss.  Happy Thursday!

May 13, 2015

"you are the smell of all summers..."



Lilacs

By Amy Lowell
Lilacs,
False blue,
White,
Purple,
Color of lilac,
Your great puffs of flowers
Are everywhere in this my New England.


Among your heart-shaped leaves
Orange orioles hop like music-box birds and sing   
Their little weak soft songs;
In the crooks of your branches
The bright eyes of song sparrows sitting on spotted eggs   
Peer restlessly through the light and shadow   
Of all Springs.


Lilacs in dooryards
Holding quiet conversations with an early moon;   
Lilacs watching a deserted house
Settling sideways into the grass of an old road;
Lilacs, wind-beaten, staggering under a lopsided shock of bloom
Above a cellar dug into a hill.
You are everywhere.
You were everywhere.


You tapped the window when the preacher preached his sermon,
And ran along the road beside the boy going to school.
You stood by the pasture-bars to give the cows good milking,   
You persuaded the housewife that her dishpan was of silver.   
And her husband an image of pure gold.  


You flaunted the fragrance of your blossoms   
Through the wide doors of Custom Houses—
You, and sandal-wood, and tea,
Charging the noses of quill-driving clerks   
When a ship was in from China.
You called to them: “Goose-quill men, goose-quill men,   
May is a month for flitting.”
Until they writhed on their high stools
And wrote poetry on their letter-sheets behind the propped-up ledgers.
Paradoxical New England clerks,
Writing inventories in ledgers, reading the “Song of Solomon” at night,
So many verses before bed-time,
Because it was the Bible.

Lilacs,
False blue,
White,
Purple,
Color of lilac,
You have forgotten your Eastern origin,   
The veiled women with eyes like panthers,
The swollen, aggressive turbans of jeweled pashas.
Now you are a very decent flower,   
A reticent flower,
A curiously clear-cut, candid flower,   
Standing beside clean doorways,
Friendly to a house-cat and a pair of spectacles,   
Making poetry out of a bit of moonlight   
And a hundred or two sharp blossoms.


Maine knows you,
Has for years and years;
New Hampshire knows you,
And Massachusetts
And Vermont.
Cape Cod starts you along the beaches to Rhode Island;   
Connecticut takes you from a river to the sea.   
You are brighter than apples,
Sweeter than tulips,
You are the great flood of our souls
Bursting above the leaf-shapes of our hearts,   
You are the smell of all Summers,
The love of wives and children,
The recollection of gardens of little children,   
You are State Houses and Charters
And the familiar treading of the foot to and fro on a road it knows. 

May is lilac here in New England,
May is a thrush singing “Sun up!” on a tip-top ash tree,   
May is white clouds behind pine-trees   
Puffed out and marching upon a blue sky.   
May is a green as no other,
May is much sun through small leaves,   
May is soft earth,
And apple-blossoms,
And windows open to a South Wind.   
May is full light wind of lilac
From Canada to Narragansett Bay. 

Lilacs,
False blue,
White,
Purple,
Color of lilac.
Heart-leaves of lilac all over New England,   
Roots of lilac under all the soil of New England,   
Lilac in me because I am New England,
Because my roots are in it,
Because my leaves are of it,
Because my flowers are for it,   
Because it is my country
And I speak to it of itself
And sing of it with my own voice   
Since certainly it is mine.

May 8, 2015

The Man You've Become

Twenty-five years ago this little boy stole my heart.

We love you for your sweetness, your gentle heart and the way you love your family like crazy...

We love you for the joy you find in everyday life


We are, of course, so proud of all you have accomplished--you are simply an amazing person.

 Smart, funny, loyal, and so very talented.  Dedicated to the craft of acting. 
 

A devoted son and brother and grandson.


 
  
 

We have watched with pride as you grew into a loving relationship with a wonderful young woman.  

 

You love your family. You love your friends.  You strive to do what's right.  Your moral compass points true north. 

But we love you not because of all you have accomplished and won and starred in and created, but for who you are...our son.  This poem seems so appropriate today....Happy Birthday!


The Man You've Become 
by Molly Pasutti
Big wheels, hot wheels
Little trucks and cars
Skinned knees, climbing trees
Wishing on the stars
Moments may be lost somewhere in time
But the sweetest memories are never left behind
Now you've grown so fine
And come so far...
I'm so proud of who you are
The man you've become
Thrilled to share your deepest joy
To know you've found the one
For the great things you will do
I'll be blessed 'cause you're my son
But I'll always see the boy
In the man you've become
School days, sleep-aways
Driving all alone
Phone calls, shopping malls
Late coming home
It was hard to know when to let you spread your wings
When to let you got to face the challenges life brings
But you've grown so fine
And come so far...

May 7, 2015

Celebrating Eunice...


Where in the world is Eunice?  We had fun posting pictures from Mom's travels...born in Indiana, worked in Arizona during WWII, moved to South Dakota after her marriage, vacations on both coasts and many places in between, plus travel half-way around the world to visit my sister in the Philippines during her Peace Corps service, and a trip to England with Phil and me on one of our youth symphony adventures...
 And yes, that's Mom posing with the Beatles at Madame Tussaud's wax museum in London!


 It wouldn't be a family gathering without a couple of nods to our parents' long and lovely marriage...

 
including this great vintage picture I found...we were definitely a Skelgas home, and I still have Dad's work shirt to prove it!

 
 Siblings...

 
Cousins (who drove all the way from Indiana to celebrate with Mom!)

 
Almost all the grand-children (only missing three!)

and in addition to lots of pansies, one very cute Lily...

A beautiful day, a beautiful mother, and beautiful memories!

May 6, 2015

Having a ball...

Pray you, love, remember. And there is pansies, that's for thoughts.
(William Shakespeare)

April came and went before I took an opportunity to share a few photos from our big birthday bash--all my siblings and our families came together to celebrate our very favorite ninety year old!  And since pansies are one of her favorite flowers, coming up with an idea for party decor was pretty simple:


"Heart's ease! One could look for half a day 
Upon this flower, and shape in fancy out 
Full twenty different tales of love and sorrow, 
That gave this gentle name.”
(Mary Howitt)

We decorated one of the photo tables with some of her beloved handkerchiefs...I have never known my mother to not have a few lovely ones tucked away in purse for emergencies!  I fondly remember her rolling them into little dolls in a cradle when we would start to fidget in church.


We had fun incorporating special touches that represented Mother's love of linens, her favorite books and tea.  We filled the tea cups with pastel M&Ms and surrounded the saucer with little chocolate kisses.


We re-purposed shower, rehearsal and wedding decor from the past few years as well, which added some extra special memories...


And all of it added up to a very special celebration for an extra special woman, mother, grand-mother, great-grandmother, aunt and friend...


Sonnets are full of love, and this my tome
Has many sonnets: so here now shall be
One sonnet more, a love sonnet, from me
To her whose heart is my heart’s quiet home,
To my first Love, my Mother, on whose knee
I learnt love-lore that is not troublesome;
Whose service is my special dignity,
And she my loadstar while I go and come
And so because you love me, and because
I love you, Mother, I have woven a wreath
Of rhymes wherewith to crown your honored name:
In you not fourscore years can dim the flame
Of love, whose blessed glow transcends the laws
Of time and change and mortal life and death.

--by Christina Rossetti





May 1, 2015

A tisket, a tasket...

here's my sweet May basket...

photo credit link
Happy May Day!  I simply cannot believe that April is already history--this spring is just flying by.  And shame on me--since I took a breather from my blog the last few weeks all those lovely poems I had ready for March and April will just have to patiently wait for next year!  I remember all the sweet May baskets my mother helped me craft in grade school---construction paper cones covered in paper doilies and filled with little goodies, and I have special memories of helping my children fill little paper cups with johnny-jump-ups for their teachers and special neighbors.  Sweet, sweet memories.

Another lovely memory that is always tied up in my mind with May Day was my fascination with the British artist Kate Greenaway.  I loved her illustrations and was so very proud of my pretty spring Kate Greenaway smocked dress.  This picture always makes me want to burst into the Lusty Month of May from Camelot, although admittedly these little girls are a far cry from a more sophisticated Guinevere!

Kate Greenaway, British illustrator, approx 1921

I am the proud owner of one of her illustrated books, and I thought you might like to see a few of her spring drawings, set to some of the verses from one of my favorite Concordians, good old Ralph Waldo.  The full version of Emerson's May Day Poems can be found here (spoiler alert--it is a long poem!)

Anything Illustrated by Kate Greenaway - I would spend many young childhood afternoons painstakingly copying and coloring her pictures, and I can't see an apple blossom tree without thinking of those sweet, quiet scenes.

Daughter of Heaven and Earth, coy Spring,
With sudden passion languishing,
Maketh all things softly smile,
Painteth pictures mile on mile,
Holds a cup with cowslip-wreaths,
Whence a smokeless incense breathes.


 

Girls are peeling the sweet willow,
Poplar white, and Gilead-tree,
And troops of boys
Shouting with whoop and hilloa,
And hip, hip three times three.
The air is full of whistlings bland;
What was that I heard
Out of the hazy land?
 Harp of the wind, or song of bird,
Or clapping of shepherd's hands,
Or vagrant booming of the air,
Voice of a meteor lost in day?
Such tidings of the starry sphere
Can this elastic air convey.


Young Ladies Dancing Around the Maypole Giclee Print
The caged linnet in the Spring
Hearkens for the choral glee,
When his fellows on the wing
Migrate from the Southern Sea;
When trellised grapes their flowers unmask,
And the new-born tendrils twine,
The old wine darkling in the cask
Feels the bloom on the living vine,
And bursts the hoops at hint of Spring:
And so, perchance, in Adam's race,
Of Eden's bower some dream-like trace
Survived the Flight, and swam the Flood,
And wakes the wish in youngest blood
To tread the forfeit Paradise,
And feed once more the exile's eyes;
And ever when the happy child
In May beholds the blooming wild,
And hears in heaven the bluebird sing,
'Onward,' he cries, 'your baskets bring,--
In the next field is air more mild,
And o'er yon hazy crest is Eden's balmier Spring.'
 

April cold with dropping rain
Willows and lilacs brings again,
The whistle of returning birds,
And trumpet-lowing of the herds.
The scarlet maple-keys betray
What potent blood hath modest May;
What fiery force the earth renews,
The wealth of forms, the flush of hues;
Joy shed in rosy waves abroad
Flows from the heart of Love, the Lord.

Young Ladies Dancing Around the Maypole Giclee Print

Where shall we keep the holiday,
And duly greet the entering May?
Too strait and low our cottage doors,
And all unmeet our carpet floors;
Nor spacious court, nor monarch's hall,
Suffice to hold the festival.
Up and away! where haughty woods
Front the liberated floods:
We will climb the broad-backed hills,
Hear the uproar of their joy;
We will mark the leaps and gleams
Of the new-delivered streams,
And the murmuring rivers of sap
Mount in the pipes of the trees,
Giddy with day, to the topmost spire,
Which for a spike of tender green
Bartered its powdery cap;
And the colours of joy in the bird,
And the love in its carol heard,
Frog and lizard in holiday coats,
And turtle brave in his golden spots;
We will hear the tiny roar
Of the insects evermore,
While cheerful cries of crag and plain
Reply to the thunder of river and main.

Wreaths for the May! for happy Spring
To-day shall all her dowry bring,
The love of kind, the joy, the grace,
Hymen of element and race,
Knowing well to celebrate
With song and hue and star and state,
With tender light and youthful cheer,
The spousals of the new-born year.
Lo Love's inundation poured
Over space and race abroad!

For thou, O Spring! canst renovate
All that high God did first create.
Be still his arm and architect,
Rebuild the ruin, mend defect;
Chemist to vamp old worlds with new,
Coat sea and sky with heavenlier blue,
New-tint the plumage of the birds,
And slough decay from grazing herds,
Sweep ruins from the scarped mountain,
Cleanse the torrent at the fountain,
Purge alpine air by towns defiled,
Bring to fair mother fairer child,
Not less renew the heart and brain,
Scatter the sloth, wash out the stain,
Make the aged eye sun-clear,
To parting soul bring grandeur near.
Under gentle types, my Spring
Masks the might of Nature's king,
An energy that searches thorough
From Chaos to the dawning morrow;
Into all our human plight,
The soul's pilgrimage and flight;
In city or in solitude,
Step by step, lifts bad to good,
Without halting, without rest,
Lifting Better up to Best;
Planting seeds of knowledge pure,
Through earth to ripen, through heaven endure.

Happy May Day!!